My high school alma mater's basketball program has a saying on the back of all their shirts, hoodies, etc. There was one year, where the saying on the back of the material was:
Respect is Earned, NOT Given
Let's stop asking for respect, and just grab it by the stronghold. THEN, we may start getting some respect. Win some HUGE non-conference games(and not have any let-down games), then the respect will come.
When we beat Mississippi State last year, people took notice... Until we lost the following weekend to Duquesne and Valparaiso...