I got the complete, and I mean complete, opposite perspective from that conversation. It appeared that Q and Coles was just talking, Dambrot looked over and did not do anything because there was nothing to be angry about.
Coles was upset after he found out that a T was called on his player, which was after the conversation with Q. Coles was talking to him during the meeting with the officals, and when the T was announced, that was when he exploded.